So yesterday, completely tired of women being the victims of sexual assault associated with alcohol-ridden parties, I wrote an article I’d hoped would provoke more women and those who loved them to become proactive and make it harder for women to be victims of sexual assaults while intoxicated. Unfortunately this article rubbed some the wrong… Read More Are Women ‘Always’ To Blame?
Whose narratives of sex …have we received, own and believe? Sex is not a gift or act of the Devil. Sex is one of the ‘earthly’ gifts God has given humans, but because of wrong theology, sex (and anything pleasurable) was scorned and looked down upon as sinful by those who would determine their own… Read More Whose Narrative of Sex…?
For those who wonder what my position on abortion is, this is it.… Read More Pro-Life. Pro-Choice. Pro-Woman and Child.
So when many Christians see an article about sexual issues, written by another Christian, they expect it to be clinical enough to keep them from talking about the realities of sex. This ostrich-in-the-sand approach to sexual issues is the reason why there’s a huge misunderstanding about and misappropriation of sex. No one that we know… Read More Responsible Sex
When it comes to our personal choices and lifestyles, I wonder how many of realize how much we are influenced by external forces – the forces of the companies who want to buy their products or subscribe to their service. They get us to line their pockets with our money, and in exchange they tell… Read More The Power of Suggestion
Masturbation is one of those body functions, like farting, that while a healthy part of human bodily function, is either frowned upon or relegated to the boys’ playing field. Farts are something that can only be enjoyed by boys and men. As such, masturbation and (open) talks about masturbation stem from what society has encouraged… Read More Reclaiming Masturbation
There’s so much perpetuating the idea that the human male is all about sex. Prevailing arguments for male behavior, choices and lifestyle seem to suggest that more than anything else, the human male is predominantly a sexual being. We are told there’s only one thing on a man’s mind – sex. We are told he… Read More Brother, Thou Art More Than Sex!
It is very surprising that many Christians advocate for and propagate men’s sexual drive without giving thought to the real what, why and wherefore of what they’re talking about from the perspective of both science and theology. Rather, they base this simply upon ‘male privilege’ and their imagined reality of the male anatomy, physiology and… Read More The Science AND Theology of Being Horny
Two years ago, I attended a Christian marriage conference in the capacity of a pastor, looking to recommend it to my married parishioners, or couples in premarital and marital counseling. Despite the fact that I found some of the portrayals of the differences between males and females lacking, there was enough general loving Christian principle… Read More Introducing The Christian Sex Chronicles
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